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The holidays are over. Whether you had a great time celebrating or events didn't quite live up to your expectations, you might feel a bit down during these dark, cold days of winter. How can you tell if you're dealing with a slight case of "the blues," or perhaps suffering from depression? There are tell-tale signs.

Depression Checklist

Symptoms of depression may include:

  • feeling "down" or "blue" for two weeks or more
  • irritibility, difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • eating more or less than usual, resulting in weight gain or loss
  • loss of interest in usual activities—hobbies, sex, getting together with friends
  • sleeping much more or less than usual, or being tired regardless of the amount of sleep you get
If you experience several of these symptoms, talk with your doctor. You may be suffering from depression.

The most obvious cause of depression is "situational depression," which occurs when you experience a traumatic life event like the death of a loved one, marital problems or divorce, or financial difficulties. Depression can also be caused by an imbalance of neurotransmitters—chemicals in the brain that affect how you feel. Sometimes depression is a side effect of an illness or medication. If you experience depression, your doctor will seek to determine the cause before starting treatment.

How can You Help?

If you see signs of depression in someone close to you, say something like, "You've seemed down for the last few weeks. Do you want to talk about it?" If the person has experienced a traumatic event in his or her life recently, you might add, "You've certainly been through some tough times lately!" If you think the person would benefit by talking with a professional, approach the subject by saying, "A professional could help you by suggesting steps you could take to feel better. I'll go with you if you'd like."

People are often reluctant to admit they need professional help, so you might have to suggest it several times before the person seeks help. If you have experienced depression, consider sharing your experience and what you did to resolve it. Reassure the person that seeking professional help is not a sign of weakness, but a step toward getting well.

What to do Right Now

The following suggestions can help resolve symptoms of depression, as well as improve your mood if you are experiencing "the blues."

  • Take good care of yourself! Regular exercise stimulates the production of endorphins--feel-good chemicals produced by the brain. Take time to do things you enjoy: listen to music, read, indulge in a hobby, spend time with people you love.
  • Treat yourself to a massage to reduce stress, which can play a part in depression.
  • St. John's Wort is an herbal remedy said to help depression. Studies have not proven these claims, and St. John's Wort can interfere with other medications, so avoid it.
  • Talking with a counselor, therapist, or pastor can help you discover and solve the causes of your depression, and develop healthy coping methods.
  • If depression is interfering with activities of daily living, a physician may prescribe one of a variety of antidepressants. If one doesn't work within several weeks—the time it can take to feel the effects—another should be tried. Most side effects are mild and easily treated.
  • Remind yourself, depression is common. More than 19 million people a year are diagnosed with some type. Use these suggestions to help you bring back the joy in your life, or help someone else who may be suffering.
This article appeared in the Winter 2007 issue of Rural Life magazine. Check out this great new magazine at www.RuralLifemagazine.com.

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